Written by Youth Ambassador Ayela.
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Growing up with a neurodivergent sibling came with challenges. As a child, I didn’t quite understand why I had a bigger responsibility in supporting my younger sibling than any other siblings had. It felt overwhelming at times, and I often wondered if anyone else was going through the same thing.
When I was 7, my sibling’s teacher introduced my parents to a support group called Young Carers. She explained that it was a community for young people aged 5-18 who helped look after a family member. The group provided activities and days out to give young carers a break from their caregiving roles. At first, I was confused, I didn’t realise I was a young carer. I thought I was just doing what any sibling would do.
My first Young Carers event was an eye-opener. I met so many children my age who were going through the same experiences. For the first time, I felt understood. Caring for a family member at a young age can be incredibly hard, but being surrounded by others who understood it made a huge difference. Young Carers created a fun and safe environment where I could explore new things and, most importantly, realise I wasn’t alone in my struggles.
Unfortunately, when I was 9, the Young Carers group lost its funding and had to close its offices. It was devastating to hear the news and to lose an incredible support system. However, a couple of years later, a new organisation, Bromley Well Young Carers, stepped in. When I had the opportunity to rejoin a young carers group, I didn’t hesitate, and I couldn’t have been more grateful.
Through Bromley Well Young Carers, I had the chance to experience so many amazing things. I went on trips to the theatre, took part in cooking classes and art workshops, and met new friends. The support I received was unmatched. They recognised the hard work I put into my caring role and made sure I felt valued. One of the most special moments was when they helped me secure funding for a holiday with my friends, this provided a much-needed break to recharge and just be a teenager for a while.
Beyond the activities and fun experiences, what made Bromley Well Young Carers truly special was the way they always checked in on me. They ensured I had the support I needed, whether it was emotional encouragement or practical help. Without them, I wouldn’t have had the opportunity to grow in my role as a young carer to support my sibling in the best way possible.
Looking back, I can’t express enough how thankful I am for Young Carers and Bromley Well Young Carers. They provided me a community, a safe space, and experiences that shaped me into the person I am today. For any young carer out there feeling lost and alone, know there is support, and you don’t have to go through it alone.
If you are a young carer, find support on the Carers Trust website.
